You Want Them There

Make no mistake, the people that give you trouble, you want them to be there, without exception. They're your scapegoats. If you could just remember that fact the next time some apparently real flamer pushes your buttons, then you could hold your tongue, think with the Holy Spirit, and change your mind. You want them to be there, all right. Always. You need it. That's how you trick yourself into thinking you're not guilty, or at least not terribly guilty, so you can cope most of the time - for the guilt is somewhere else. As long as you're stuck in the maze, you can't see that the whole thing is unnecessary, because you were never really guilty in the first place. The whole maze is an illusion to defend yourself against an illusion. ~ The Disappearance of the Universe    Facebook.com/DWMJF/photo   Facebook.com/DWMJF/photo   Facebook.com/photo